If you’re here you probably know what it means to ruin an orgasm, denying my boyfriend that pleasure is an art form and something that drives him wild and turns me on. If you don’t know a ‘ruined orgasm’ is exactly as it sounds, getting your partner to the brink of an orgasm and then stopping right before they blow, this is in turn usually makes them squirt of cum without the orgasm and leaves them feeling dissatisfied and absolutely unbelievably desperate for that release.
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I don’t let my boyfriend cum (the poor thing)
Everyone does things differently but this is how my boyfriend and I do it. I try and get him to the point of orgasm once a day, but I only let him cum once per week and it takes me hours of play before I let him actually have that release.
The poor thing must do as I say or risk not being able to cum until I say so. Bringing him to the point of orgasm and then stopping is pure torture for him but he loves it secretly and it keeps us both on our toes.
I like to dress up and tell him today is going to be the day he can cum, I get him so excited, I eke out his pleasure by blowing him and riding him until he just can’t take anymore and at the very last second, I stop and giggle, ruining his orgasm and making him wince and moan in desperation.
It may not sound like it but we both take great pleasure from doing this and my boyfriend does thank me after, he is too worked up to thank me during the process but I know it gets him off, even more, knowing I am denying him his orgasm, laughing at him and taking total control over his pleasure and making him totally submit to me and my desires.
I also love making him get me off and if he even leaks one tiny bit of cum boy does he get in trouble, he knows the rules and if he tries to not play ball he gets a severely ruined orgasm for weeks.
I always ruin his orgasm if he does this 😫
If he tries to cum before I am ready to allow him to cum I just stop all play and ruin his orgasm as a punishment. I stop all movement and I don’t let him cum. He knows the rules, he knows that I am in charge of when and where he cums if he tries to be clever and tries to move his hips to make me do it faster, if he makes any noise or if he cums before I have said he can these are all grounds for punishment and he knows it’s not worth the risk.
On another note if you are thinking about ruining your partner’s orgasm talk about it thoroughly beforehand and let me know this is something you are looking to do, don’t catch him by surprise, it’s not cute unless you have worked it all out.
The last time I tried milking his cock (I got him so good)
I started in the morning, I woke up horny and decided today was the day for a good old-fashioned cock milking. I grabbed his dick, it was already hard, and I got him to the point of orgasm just to start the day off right. Just before he was about to cum I stopped, yawned and got out of bed.
Walking to my closet I picked out his favorite outfit and I dressed up like a little slut. We had a whole day at home today and I knew I was going to use it to my advantage.
I was dressed up, walking around the house, teasing him without a bra on and bending down so that he could see up my skirt and my panties. I could see he was so hard through his sweatpants and I knew he wanted that release but he knows he only gets it when I am good and ready.
All throughout the day I would tell him that this was it, he was allowed to cum and then I would let go and stop, he would just lay there, panting, his cock twitching and spilling out cum. It was racy and very hard-core.
When the sun started going down, I started to feel bad for him, his cock was harder than I had ever seen it before and he had to close his eyes whenever I walked past because he just couldn’t take it anymore. I decided one last tease was me playing with myself on the couch, I opened my legs and began playing with my clit, pushing my fingers into my pussy. He couldn’t take his eyes off of me but he knew one wrong move and he would have to wait even longer to cum.
I went over him to him and told him this was it, he could cum. I wrapped my lips around his cock and soaked his shaft with my spit, his cock was rock solid and as he was about to cum I stopped, his cum spat all over my face but there was no orgasm insight. I stood up and giggled, walking away.
Ruined orgasm while he was inside me (I’m the worst)
I told him to go upstairs, he was allowed to cum now after a whole day of teasing and milking but he still didn’t really believe me. He lay down on the bed and I restrained him, this is so he can’t suddenly grab his cock and get himself off. I then used all of my best tricks and began teasing his cock carefully, using my tongue and my hands I was making his entire body tremble.
I then straddled him and lowered my pussy onto him, he knew not to make one noise or it would all stop. My pink wet pussy wrapped itself around his throbbing cock and I began riding him at the pace that I liked, squeezing my own tits and moaning, I could feel my own orgasm building, he had to wait for me to cum. Once I was satisfied I told him that it was okay to cum now, he didn’t believe me so I kept on thrusting, he was telling me to stop that he was going to blow so I kept on going, I didn’t stop riding him until just as he started cumming, I yawned as he filled me with his sperm, he got his orgasm in the end but he wasn’t good enough for me to keep moving as he came. I ruined it whilst he was inside of me and there was nothing he could do about it.
What Shall I Do To My Boyfriend Next?
I love teasing him, it’s such a thrill. What shall I do to him next? Let me know in the comments below and I’ll let you know how it goes.
edge him like 10 times then just yawn and walk away.
Edge him a lot. Get him to confess kinky fantasies while all riled up. Then tell him you have a fantasy… for him to clean up his mess. Ruin it, rub your feet in it, then force him to lick, kiss or otherwise worship them. Lots of fun for both!
I would love to have a gf like you that ruined my orgasm, so hot.
Have him kneel down in between your legs, with his hands behind his back. Then, give him a nice, slow, teasing edging kind of handjob. As you stroke him tell him that you’ve always wanted to see a guy eat his own cum. Tell him that if he cums, he has to lick it off your stomach. When he cums, do not stroke him hard or fast, continue stroking him softly and slowly. Then, remove your hands and order him to lick up his cum. Remind him that if he does not lick up his cum, he will not be allowed to cum for an entire month. After he licks it all up, tell him, “Good boy, now, while you’re down there, lick my pussy”
Order him to lick your pussy while you have phone sex with a guy.
Brag to your girlfriends that he is your sex slave and that, when it comes to sex, you call all the shots. If you find that one of your girlfriends does the same thing with their boyfriend or husband, suggest that you two swap boyfriends/husbands for a night.
Another idea, suggest that your buy and her man MUST give each of you a 3some! And when you do, make the guys take turns eating each other’s cum. Have sex with one guy and make the other watch. After one guy cums inside of you, make the other eat you out afterwards.
Another idea: Give one guy a blowjob, when he cums in your mouth, instead of swallowing it, French kiss the other guy, with a mouthful of cum.
Another idea, make him pleasure you all day and not let him cum until late in the evening. Throughout the day, tell him your fantasies (in great detail) about being a 3some with two men. Tell him that one of your fantasies is to watch two guys put on a show for you. You want to see two guys suck each other off. Tell him, in great detail how you want to see it happen. Make him watch pornos showing guys sucking each other off. Later in the evening, tell him that you’ll allow him to cum on one condition, he has to agree to fulfill your fantasy to suck another guy off, right in front of you!
I’ve discovered several ways in which I can eat my own cum:
With her giving me a handjob and collecting my cum in her hand. Afterwards I have to open my mouth, stick out my tongue and let her pour it into my mouth.
After giving me a blowjob, instead of swallowing it, I have to allow her to French kiss me afterwards
With me on top, after she allows me to cum inside of her, I have to eat her out afterwards
With her on top, after I cum inside of her, she quickly gets up turns around and makes me eat her out.
She gives me a slow teasing edging kind of handjob. When she finally lets me cum, she makes me kneel down in between her legs so I can cum all over her stomach. Afterwards, I have to lick it up, ALL of it.
Same thing except she aims my cum onto her pussy and then makes me eat her out
She gives me a handjob while I’m laying on the floor. When she finally lets me cum, she brings my legs up over my head so that my cock is hanging right over my mouth. When she gives me permission to cum, she orders me to open my mouth and stick out my tongue, When I cum, she aims my entire cum shot right into my open/waiting mouth. Then, she makes me swallow it, all of it!
This isn’t going to sound as good as I think it is but after he’s worked up until it’s all purple grab the base of it and wag it back and forth while tapping it in the palm of your hand. You can also do that using your index finger-so cute!
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Edge him till hes screaming to cum then gag him and keep edging him make him suffer for at least 2 hours a day for at least a month
Make him eat his ruined orgasms
I would say a longer denial period would be the next step. What about making him beg and plead for you to ruin him. Or maybe make ruin it himself. Possibly by fucking you and pulling out at the last second.
I have trained myself to ejaculate fantasizing about a goddess like you totally hands free. You should train him to do it through the sound of your voice. Let him know you own every orgasm
Have him tied to the bed. Give him a footjob until he cums. Take some of his cum from his ruined orgasm and make him suck and lick it off your feet. Give him a light kick in the balls and sit next to him. Take some more of his cum and slap it on his face. Rub his own cum all over his face. Have him eat the rest of his cum. Then yawn and get up and walk away, leaving him tied up
To make his orgasm even less pleasurable you can tickle him (if he is ticklish) while he has is ruined orgasm.