If you’re here you probably know what it means to ruin an orgasm, denying my boyfriend that pleasure is an art form and something that drives him wild and turns me on. If you don’t know a ‘ruined orgasm’ is exactly as it sounds, getting your partner to the brink of an orgasm and then stopping right before they blow, this is in turn usually makes them squirt of cum without the orgasm and leaves them feeling dissatisfied and absolutely unbelievably desperate for that release.
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I don’t let my boyfriend cum (the poor thing)
Everyone does things differently but this is how my boyfriend and I do it. I try and get him to the point of orgasm once a day, but I only let him cum once per week and it takes me hours of play before I let him actually have that release.
The poor thing must do as I say or risk not being able to cum until I say so. Bringing him to the point of orgasm and then stopping is pure torture for him but he loves it secretly and it keeps us both on our toes.
I like to dress up and tell him today is going to be the day he can cum, I get him so excited, I eke out his pleasure by blowing him and riding him until he just can’t take anymore and at the very last second, I stop and giggle, ruining his orgasm and making him wince and moan in desperation.
It may not sound like it but we both take great pleasure from doing this and my boyfriend does thank me after, he is too worked up to thank me during the process but I know it gets him off, even more, knowing I am denying him his orgasm, laughing at him and taking total control over his pleasure and making him totally submit to me and my desires.
I also love making him get me off and if he even leaks one tiny bit of cum boy does he get in trouble, he knows the rules and if he tries to not play ball he gets a severely ruined orgasm for weeks.
I always ruin his orgasm if he does this 😫
If he tries to cum before I am ready to allow him to cum I just stop all play and ruin his orgasm as a punishment. I stop all movement and I don’t let him cum. He knows the rules, he knows that I am in charge of when and where he cums if he tries to be clever and tries to move his hips to make me do it faster, if he makes any noise or if he cums before I have said he can these are all grounds for punishment and he knows it’s not worth the risk.
On another note if you are thinking about ruining your partner’s orgasm talk about it thoroughly beforehand and let me know this is something you are looking to do, don’t catch him by surprise, it’s not cute unless you have worked it all out.
The last time I tried milking his cock (I got him so good)
I started in the morning, I woke up horny and decided today was the day for a good old-fashioned cock milking. I grabbed his dick, it was already hard, and I got him to the point of orgasm just to start the day off right. Just before he was about to cum I stopped, yawned and got out of bed.
Walking to my closet I picked out his favorite outfit and I dressed up like a little slut. We had a whole day at home today and I knew I was going to use it to my advantage.
I was dressed up, walking around the house, teasing him without a bra on and bending down so that he could see up my skirt and my panties. I could see he was so hard through his sweatpants and I knew he wanted that release but he knows he only gets it when I am good and ready.
All throughout the day I would tell him that this was it, he was allowed to cum and then I would let go and stop, he would just lay there, panting, his cock twitching and spilling out cum. It was racy and very hard-core.
When the sun started going down, I started to feel bad for him, his cock was harder than I had ever seen it before and he had to close his eyes whenever I walked past because he just couldn’t take it anymore. I decided one last tease was me playing with myself on the couch, I opened my legs and began playing with my clit, pushing my fingers into my pussy. He couldn’t take his eyes off of me but he knew one wrong move and he would have to wait even longer to cum.
I went over him to him and told him this was it, he could cum. I wrapped my lips around his cock and soaked his shaft with my spit, his cock was rock solid and as he was about to cum I stopped, his cum spat all over my face but there was no orgasm insight. I stood up and giggled, walking away.
Ruined orgasm while he was inside me (I’m the worst)
I told him to go upstairs, he was allowed to cum now after a whole day of teasing and milking but he still didn’t really believe me. He lay down on the bed and I restrained him, this is so he can’t suddenly grab his cock and get himself off. I then used all of my best tricks and began teasing his cock carefully, using my tongue and my hands I was making his entire body tremble.
I then straddled him and lowered my pussy onto him, he knew not to make one noise or it would all stop. My pink wet pussy wrapped itself around his throbbing cock and I began riding him at the pace that I liked, squeezing my own tits and moaning, I could feel my own orgasm building, he had to wait for me to cum. Once I was satisfied I told him that it was okay to cum now, he didn’t believe me so I kept on thrusting, he was telling me to stop that he was going to blow so I kept on going, I didn’t stop riding him until just as he started cumming, I yawned as he filled me with his sperm, he got his orgasm in the end but he wasn’t good enough for me to keep moving as he came. I ruined it whilst he was inside of me and there was nothing he could do about it.
What Shall I Do To My Boyfriend Next?
I love teasing him, it’s such a thrill. What shall I do to him next? Let me know in the comments below and I’ll let you know how it goes.